At some intervals in my life, I stop and take time to reflect on myself. There are certain aspects in which I'm proud of and there are others, well, I'm not so fond of. I can't erase the "bad" that has already come and go but I can take that and learn something from it. I believe there's always some good in everything that happens. Whether you live to realise that before it's too late, pretty much depends on yourself. Make it work!

"I can't help you if you don't want to help yourself." That's always a useful line! Sometimes we hang on too tight and before you know it, it's gone. Take sand for example. The sand is in your hands, grasp it too tightly most will go through in between your fingers. But if you let it sit loosely in your hands, see how much will stay. Life is pretty much alike the sand you hold in your hands. You decide how you live it, what you make of it and how it ends is decided by you.

If we have issues, take it out once on the table. Say all you need but afterwhich, we let it go little by little. Don't take your frustrations, your unhappiness, your unsatisfactions anymore on others. If you're unhappy, then do something that makes you happy. Anything. Whatever that does wonders. But don't flare it out on others. So snap back to reality please. Life doesn't revolves around you only. What you do to others shall bestow on you one day. When? How would I know? And get this straight. This is not a curse. This is what they say KARMA.

Don't take it too hard though. Humans are excellent at their acting skills. Life is like a stage and we are the actors in it. How others react to you is through your actions; for every actions has its reactions. Do onto others as you would like done onto you. If you want good, do good. Otherwise, you know what's next in store. I shan't say much. I'm not perfect. I can only say I have learned some things in my course of life and I'm mending my ways. It's not as easy as said but I'm trying and that is all that matters. Sometimes I think too much about others; that I forget myself. So now, I'm concentrating on me. Life works in many different ways. It's just how you make out of it.

To my dear friends, stop beating youselves up. It's not you. Most times people just want to make you feel bad so they can feel better about themselves. Don't worry. They are childish and still believe they are right. Well, look at the bright side. You learn some thing new about them and how you can handle the situations and make better judgements next time. (Hopefully there's no next time!) So now take time to reflect on yourself and what you've done on others. Is this how you want to live you life? It's not too late; it's never to late to make a change for the betterment of you and others. I may be wrong but who cares? You win some, you lose some. That's life! Cheers!